Busy little social butterfly…

Oy, there’s a lot of social event going on lately! I’m starting to have to stack parties on top of each other, ‘cos I can’t disappoint now, can I? 😉 I like flirting, correction, when I like an oke, I love flirting 🙂 Especially if he’s sharp, it makes it so much fun! Kinda enjoying…

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The dreaded C word…

Is it just me or is there a hell of a lot of Cancer around these days? WTF are we doing wrong as humans? I seem to be surrounded on every front with it at the moment and in the most awful ways. I though what Dreamer’s dad went through with his Pancreatic Cancer was…

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January is a VERY long month!

I’m so poor! Boo hoo! Good thing my Personal Trainer is paid for and I have food in the house! 🙂 Won’t starve, and will exercise my butt off 🙂 That’s the rest of January plan! Bliksem but pay day seems a VERY long way away 😀 Talking of Personal Training, I have one word…

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Finding joy in the small stuff…

I find myself getting excited by the simplest things these days. Trying to focus on the half of the glass that needs filling. I have to smile at how small some of these things are, but I guess that’s what gratitude is all about. Things that excite me these days: Getting a good nights sleep…

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Flirting tips ala Triple A!

Monday morning, after a really busy weekend of jolling! YAWN! Well, this weekend was interesting! It started on an awful note, but ended on quite a good note 🙂 Introducing Triple A. Who’s Triple A? Dreamer’s wing man. I have a lot of time for Triple A, like Dreamer, I thing that deep down in…

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Declarations, confessions & aggravations of a single woman

Dear friends Please don’t take anything I’m about to say personally, but really the comments and questions I get CONSTANTLY about my “single status” can sometimes drive me batty… so, for those of you that are misinformed, this will educate you, and for those of you who know me well enough, sit back and giggle……

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Oh what a night…

… I so needed tonight in so many ways! First of all, I have to undergo some catharsis – I have been really depressed for a few weeks now … you will be thinking … so what? … but you need to understand that I am the nurturer, I’m the inspirer, I’m the strong one,…

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These things are sent to try me…

Have to smile while blogging about this, it was one of those mornings, the type where things aggravate you no end and you wonder is it just you or is everyone else fucked in the head today? First of all, whoever the powers that be are, have decided that the section of the M41 that…

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Ahoy from tropical rainforest, swamp-like Durbs …

What the *&^% is happening to our glorious Durban weather these days? We’ve had no summer to speak of, just rain, rain and more rain and last night the heaven’s opened like they never had before! I felt like I was on Survivor just getting from my garage to my front door!!! While cuddling my…

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So glad I like me…

What a crazy weekend! Friday started with Bokkies Christmas Party, we had a lovely dinner at Marco’s Restaurant in the private courtyard, the food was spectacular (as always), the service was appalling!!! Our waitress was one of the worst I had ever experienced, we waited for our drinks for ever! At one stage they ran…

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