Dreaming b-rated porn dreams!

What is it that makes me dream the fucked up shit I dream? Okay, am I seriously asking that question when I own a sex shop! What am I thinking??? My subconscious has a knack of taking the most mundane things and turning them into really badly acted b-rated porn! All the day’s events get…

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Declaration of Independence

Okay, so this is ridiculous blogging once a month! And to be solved immediately! Why have I not been blogging of late, I think it’s because I suddenly became aware that a lot of people are following my blog and know who I’m referring to, etc. and it made me feel uncomfortable being honest on…

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Musings from the treadmill … again

It’s funny how much we put up with as women before we say, “enough is enough”, and change it. What is it about us that we put ourselves last on our list? Well, I decided during and shortly after my leave (when I last blogged) that some changes were needed and it was time to…

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The reality of holidays…

Okay, so forgive me, I know I’ve been dead quiet, I worked myself silly before my leave started last Thursday so I could enjoy the time off properly … and wouldn’t you know it, by Friday night, I was sick with flu! Frikking typical! So it seems the most memorable part of my holiday will…

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Honesty vs. Two-faced Civility

So what is best really? I ponder this conundrum… One one hand, being two-faced is very easy, when you don’t particularly care about the person on the receiving end. What do you care really if the arb person looks hideous in that shade of lipstick? If she asks you what you think of it, you’ll…

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Countdown to leave …

I have had no life this February – LOL – sadly 🙂 The boutique has been busy and there’s been a lot of parties there, and I’ve had a lot on my plate business-wise, with other little projects, etc. So I have had a very good, but boring Feb 🙂 There have been a few…

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Community is an amazing thing…

It’s amazing how people can be drawn together when something happens that binds them or where there is common interest. It seems to be the theme for me today, so here are my muddled thoughts. We had crazy, freakish weather last night that has wreaked havoc across KZN, leaving in it’s wake damage, and even…

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Evolving friendships … glory :)

I think I must be very intimidating to Dreamer’s girlfriends. I try to put myself in their shoes, and I get it, honestly, I get it. I mean I’m like his sister, but he used to shag me many moons ago, EECCKKK!!! They must have palpitations every time they think of me. But really! This…

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